We are continuing our cult of personality in class this week. I gave my students a long list of personality adjectives, and I even translated them into Korean (with help from my most awesome co-teacher) and had them do a worksheet where they decided which traits were good and which traits were bad. I then gave them a worksheet where they chose the 5 best traits for a friend, a father, a mother, a teacher and a boyfriend.
I always make the students give a presentation after they fill in the worksheets; I do let them work in groups, and I try to get them to use the time to speak English, but as soon as I’m out of sight, they start speaking in Korean, this happens even in my best classes, so to make sure they speak a little bit of English, I make them stand up and present their worksheets.
I was shocked at how many students said “mean” and “cold-hearted” are good traits for a boyfriend. I asked, and they all said, ” bad boys, mmmm good” or some variation. As a teacher who both loves her students and is not immune to bad boy charm, I was in a bit of a pickle. I do understand, but when I think of a bad boy, I don’t think of mean, or cold-hearted. I think of a guy with a motorcycle and more than one girlfriend. Fun while it lasts, but something you usually outgrow eventually. The problem was explaining this without scandalizing some of my co-teachers ( I have 5 this semester). 1/2 of my co-teachers would be sympathetic, but some … hmm I’m not so sure about. So I settled on – A bad boy will take you for a ride, and a bad man (cold-hearted and mean) will take everything you have. I think that is a good explanation.
In my advanced class, I also have them do a dialog using the new vocabulary words. I was not surprised that the students who liked bad boys would come up with this exchange:
A: “I am sad. I got into a fight with my boyfriend”
B: ” It is obviously his fault”
Because if he is a bad boy, his fault is obvious. Obviously.
I was also a bit surprised but not shocked that students in the advanced and high intermediate classes liked a bossy and strict teacher, but students in the low intermediate and beginner classes liked an easy-going teacher.
Sometimes I have way too much fun in my class, but then I’m very easily amused.